tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816994953092029218.post9174275381180468989..comments2023-10-29T05:44:47.413-04:00Comments on Bouncing Buckeye Baby: Bad bad badAllisonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16231356497182904172noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816994953092029218.post-64892686710078213572010-07-20T10:20:44.938-04:002010-07-20T10:20:44.938-04:00Total ditto of everything cassie said. Other moms...Total ditto of everything cassie said. Other moms that say they've never been there are completely lying. Either that or they are delusional. Don't put so much pressure on yourself. You are a wonderful Mommy!! Every now and then things get tough and it's okay to break down. Just take the time you need to get yourself back in the game. (((hugs))))Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03099211024937605205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816994953092029218.post-70475386446708318702010-07-20T10:17:01.534-04:002010-07-20T10:17:01.534-04:00Sending loads of hugs.Sending loads of hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816994953092029218.post-4175234931650286792010-07-19T17:57:37.227-04:002010-07-19T17:57:37.227-04:00The website keeps eating my comments.
I really wa...The website keeps eating my comments.<br /><br />I really want to tell you that you ARE doing a great job. I know deep down that you love your daughter with all of your heart. Even when you don't like her one bit. <br /><br />I am just down the street if you need someone. Remember when R. went to MI? You guys were my saving grace from wanting to through Little Guy out the window.Sarah Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06325571958796520506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816994953092029218.post-57393080633851156372010-07-19T10:41:01.883-04:002010-07-19T10:41:01.883-04:00A few things you need to know -- and I hope you al...A few things you need to know -- and I hope you already do:<br /><br />1. You are not a failure.<br />2. You are not a bad mommy.<br />3. The people who tell you they've never been there? Those people are lying. They're all lying. We have ALL been there, and like Em said, I don't think we talk about it enough.<br />4. You are a WONDERFUL, loving, amazing mother who is doing her best with lots of stress and not a lot of rest.<br /><br />I'm sending you big hugs today. I hope last night went ok for you and Baby Girl.Cassiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08096840325414426054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816994953092029218.post-876053826196915072010-07-19T10:12:22.781-04:002010-07-19T10:12:22.781-04:00*hugs**hugs*Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00192034957449135393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816994953092029218.post-41239752180766647022010-07-19T08:19:21.153-04:002010-07-19T08:19:21.153-04:00My aunt and I were just talking about this on Satu...My aunt and I were just talking about this on Saturday while we listened to my baby cousin scream in pure fury after he was put to bed. Sometimes you just need to make sure the baby is safe and take a break away from the crying. I've taken naps with earplugs in while he was fighting his nap or sat out on the porch on days I was home alone with him and he was driving me crazy. DS is 18 mos and just Saturday I felt like running away to the bookstore or somewhere quiet for an hour where no one would repeatedly defy my directions and scream at me for not letting him have the remotes/phone/crayons he'd eaten. <br /><br />You are not a bad mommy. It sounds like you are probably sleep-deprived and incredibly stressed out and just need a break. I wish I had a solution for you.<br /><br />I have been reading I Was a Really Good Mom Before I Had Kids by Ashworth/Nobile and they talk a lot about all the pressures that moms are under and some of these "dirty little secrets" that we don't talk about enough. It might at least help you know that others have been where you are. ((hugs))Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01761761890362825805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816994953092029218.post-77617599192930639782010-07-18T23:34:30.144-04:002010-07-18T23:34:30.144-04:00Big, big hugs to you. I'm praying you all have...Big, big hugs to you. I'm praying you all have a good night.Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07777748341599981655noreply@blogger.com